Wednesday, June 18, 2014

111. G for Gratitude, G for Gold

Thousand Full Moon: Shrimati Sumati Gajanan Khadilkar
Contributed by: Dr. Raghunath Boradkar



Shrimati Sumati Gajanan Khadilkar is 89 years old. She is fond of reading and has a good knowledge of Ayurved and home remedies. Here she tells us about her cherished memory which she calls a Golden Memory.
It must have been 1971 or 1972. We had just moved to Aranyeshwar area in Pune. It was a small colony of 15 to 20 bungalows. We had rented a big place in a Bungalow. My husband was transferred to Dound and he used to come to Pune on Saturdays and Sundays. I was in Pune with my three children. My elder son had just gotten a job in Phillips the other two were still in college.  After completing my morning chores like cooking and all that I used to be alone in the house till evening.
Mr. and Mrs. Ambekar were our next door neighbors. They had two daughters Anjali was four years and the Megha was two years old. Mrs. Ambekar was a graduate and used to work some where before marriage. They were extremely good natured and helpful. We became very close to each other very quickly. Mrs. Ambekar always used to say that she would start working again when her daughters were grown up. The two girls used to come to our house often and we were very fond of them.
It so happened that Mrs. Ambekar suddenly got a job offer from Kirloskar press. But she was not willing to accept the job as she could not find any one to look after her daughters. But I encouraged her to accept the job and promised to look after her daughters while she was away. I told her that the girls were like my grand daughters and that we were very familiar so I asked her not to bother about paying me and never mention it again. On my assuring her she accepted the job and started working. For full two years I looked after her daughters. They used to be with me from 10am to 4pm. Their father used to come home at 4 pm and then the girls went home.
Later they got another place in Subhash Nagar and so they shifted there. Before leaving Mrs. Ambekar came to see me and gave me a gold necklace of three Tolas (about 33 gm). She insisted that I accept the gift not as a payment for looking after the girls but as a memento. While parting she hugged me with overwhelming emotion.

In 2006 I underwent a major surgery on my thigh bone and was bedridden for nearly two months. My grand daughter who was carrying at that time was with us and she looked after me and helped me. So I gave that necklace to her as a present for my soon to come great grandson or daughter from his or her great grandmother.

Shrimati Sumati Gajanan Khadilkar.

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