Wednesday, August 26, 2015

124. I vowed to educate my children



I vowed to educate my children

Thousand Full Moon: Savitri Yashavant Tilak

I was born in Aravali, a small village in Konkan. The place is known for its hot springs. Although my father was a ‘bhikshuk’ he was a very strong man. He could easily plough the field if something were to happen to the bull. My mother was very frail and understandably so. We were seven sisters and five brothers, there were four more but they did not make it. My father jokingly referred to us as the “cricket team”. I don’t remember ever taking a bath at home we always went to the river to wash up. I would work in the fields, tend cows etc. I studied up to seventh grade and never studied English.

After I got married I had four children. Although my father-in-law was a lawyer he was never good at collecting his fees particularly from poor clients. As a result he did not have much money and had to work a lot to make ends meet. As a result his children’s education got neglected. Within one year of my marriage I swore that no matter what happened I would educate my children. I started tutoring first to fourth grades. I would gather the neighborhood kids and make them memorize multiplication tables and Ramraksha. This helped all the children and gave them good Sanskar.

I am happy to tell you that all my kids are well educated. My youngest stood first in his B.Com batch. He could not clear the C.A. exam the first time, he fell short by one point. That was the year his father had passed away. But I stood by him like a rock. He worked and studied and cleared his C.A. exam on the second attempt. That gave me great satisfaction!

123. Riding my bicycle



Riding my bicycle

Thousand Full Moon: Shyamala Sadashiv Abhyankar 81+


I was in college that time. I lived in Pune. A few of my friends and I would go to ‘Parvati’ (a word that means a small mountain) at dawn for our daily hike, spend some time there and would return home by 8:00 AM. One day Saroj who was about my age and lived a few houses down the road asked me where we all went every morning. Upon hearing about our morning hike routine she asked me whether she also could join us. I am glad she asked because then on we became great friends and are in touch till today!

I used to play throw ball. I was the captain of my team. I was good at ‘placing’ the ball i.e. tossing it in a spot where opposite team players were not present. The other team would find it hard to return the ball back to us and we would score points. I won many certificates and trophies. Although they were special to me I ended up selling them to a scrap metal collector.

In those days it was very common for women to ride bikes in Pune. I would ride my bike everywhere. One day I was riding on ‘Lakadi pul’ the famous wooden bridge of Pune and I was riding hands free! One of my grandfather’s friends saw me and came home that evening to tell on me saying that my grandfather should reprimand me for such reckless behavior.
From Pune I came to Agashi on my first job as a school teacher and I brought my bike with me. Agashi was a small village. It was not common for women to work outside of home let alone ride bikes. People would point to me and talk about me as I became a local sensation for riding my bike to work.