Thousand
Moon: Sushila Vishnu Biwalkar (82).
Contributed
by: Rohini
I had
planned to visit my Kaku (aunt) who lives in Malad, but the heavy rains during
my India trip made me alter my plans and I had to be content with the phone
conversation.
Thousand
Moon: Sushila Vishnu Biwalkar (82)
Sushila
Vishnu Biwalkar, was born in Medhegao, Kulaba in 1931. She comes from a big
family of 13 siblings, seven brothers and six sisters. Her father was a school
teacher. She was raised in Girgaon and got married at the age of 16. After
marriage she and her husband lived with her husband's maternal uncle at Dadar in a
small two room flat. When her first child was born she and the baby had to go
and live with her mother-in-law in their ancestral village Asud. She wanted to
be with her husband but could not due to a shortage of space at Dadar in a small flat. She and her husband were able to get a place of their
own in Malad when her son was three and a half years old. She has lived there
ever since.
A very
joyous day in her life was July 24th 1967, the day she got a permanent
job as a school teacher. She had done teaching jobs at several different
schools but they were all temporary positions. She was happy to get a permanent
position as she was able to help out financially in running the household. The Primary
Teacher’s Course training that she completed while raising three little boys,
while staying up till two am to finish her college work had finally paid off.
As she had gotten married early, her education
at the time was only till 9th grade. After 16
years of being away from education she went back and got her matriculation. It
was not easy catching up on all the course work after such a long break. But
she was determined. Her primary goal was to pass the exams, which she did. The
education streak continued. She did the Secondary Teachers training course and
went on to get a BA degree at the age of 48!
Her husband
worked for the Indian postal service and also acted in Marathi Theater. She
narrated yet another incidence that gave her a lot of joy and contentment- Her
husband was rehearsing for a play produced by Chitralekha. After one particular
rehearsal the entire cast sat down for drinks. Her husband did not join them as
he was a teetotaler. But the cast and crew insisted that he joins them that
night or else he would not be considered a part of the team and will have to
quit. He chose to quit and came home to her and the family. That was a
memorable and gratifying event for Kaku…
We chatted
for a long time that day as I realized that each life is like a river. It has
its rough and turbulent times and calm and tranquil times. The river must flow
till it reaches its destination.
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